Saturday, January 22, 2011

6 months old and eating solids!

Monthly update
Even though my last post was only a few days ago, there's a lot of news.  For starters, we had our 6 month checkup on Thursday.  Daniel's up to 15lb 8oz and 26.5in long, still long and lean and a healthy boy.  He had his first runny nose this week but no other symptoms so the doctor's guess is allergies or teething rather than a cold.  He was very smiley and giggly at his appointment and grabbed the stethoscope from the doctor's neck so he could play with it and inspect it further.  Our next checkup is in 2 more months and I wonder what new tricks he'll learn by then.

The big change for us in the past month is that Kevin returned to work and Daniel goes to my mother-in-law's house during the day.  We've all had to adjust a little to that change but all in all, it's going well.  Daniel seems to be happy there during the day and generally naps and eats well.  He has always thrived on a routine of play, eat, sleep (we tried switching the first 2 but it just works better this way), and we try to have him back down for a nap within 2 hours of waking.  My MIL is trying to stick to this routine with him as well and I think that predictability helps him to feel secure even though it's not home and not Mommy and Daddy.  Grandma is relishing the opportunity to spend time with him and her house is close enough to my office that I can go over to visit at lunchtime.  It's about as close to an ideal situation as you can have short of working at home.

Here's a look at where we are this month:
Sleeping: His nighttime sleep is down a bit during the day because he doesn't get to go back to sleep for long after our first feeding of the day.  He still eats around 5:45-6, but whereas before I would put him back down and he'd wake up again after 8, now we leave for Grandma's by 7:15 so he's up for the day by then.  The good news is he seems to be compensating for that by napping longer during the day.  2 and 3 hour naps are not uncommon.  He's had a harder time getting down for the night for the past few weeks with teething but most nights it's still not too bad.

Eating: Until tonight, Daniel was still an exclusively breastfed baby.  He's a good eater and if tonight's experience (below) is any indication I think he'll be a good solid food eater too.

On a side note, the fact that I exclusively breastfed for 6 months, as the AAP recommends, makes me a member of an exclusive club.  Only 13% of mothers still exclusively breastfeed at 6 months and less than half are still nursing at all.  I know some women aren't able to nurse or can't fully provide that way, but given all the benefits nursing provides mom and baby it's a shame that so many women don't get the support they need at home or work to enable them to continue for the whole first year.  I was happy to see the Surgeon General's call to action to support breastfeeding this week bring awareness to the issue.

Activities: The ExerSaucer has been a big hit this month.  He loves playing in it and it's been fun to watch him discover new toys on it.  In fact, he loves it so much we decided to get another for Grandma's house.  He still enjoys his activity mat too and is starting to work on creeping.  If we put a toy he wants a few inches away from his hands, he can scoot himself there, though not yet gracefully.  He has figured out how to lift his butt up and down and tries to generate momentum that way but not always successfully.  Sometimes he'll use his head to scoot forward too.  He lifts all the way up on his arms too and he's starting to put weight on his knees.  While he may not be able to put the movements together smoothly during the day he's quite proficient at moving all around his crib at night.  It's not uncommon to find him all the way across the crib from where we put him, turned 180 degrees to face the opposite direction!

Here's his 6 month carseat picture:





































Since that doesn't show his length well, here's a picture of him lying by our cat Todd. 







































For the first few months Todd seemed indifferent toward Daniel but lately they seem to be growing fond of each other.  Daniel watches Todd from across the room and Todd lets Daniel pet him, grab his fur and, as we saw today, even roll over onto him, and he was still purring.  Besides our other cat Tim, Daniel has another feline friend in Grandma's cat Marty, who stands guard outside the bedroom door while Daniel naps during the day.

Who likes sweet potatoes?
We decided early on that we would wait until Daniel was 6 months old to introduce solids, or at least as long as we could.  So as the half-year mark drew closer we made preparations, setting up the high chair, researching which foods to give, and last week, I bought little bowls, spoons, and sippy cups.  It felt surreal to look at them and realize my baby would be eating big boy food soon.  It reminds of how it felt in the final months of pregnancy looking in his closet and realizing that a little baby was coming soon to wear them.

After much consideration we decided Daniel's first solid food would be sweet potatoes.  So today Daniel and I went shopping and bought a fresh yam.  I baked it, scooped it out of the peel, pureed it, and mixed in some breastmilk to thin it out, then let it cool.

On the advice of some mommy friends we stripped him down to his diaper and a bib (so as not to have messy clothes) and strapped him into his high chair.






































Once we got him settled in it was time to eat!

Here's his first bite:

Mmmm...yummy!

We quickly discovered though that he ate better if we put a dab of puree on our finger and fed him that way.  After he got tired of his high chair we even fed him some more in the bathtub and he kept eating.  All told, our first foray into the land of big boy food went pretty well.  After a few days assuming no adverse reaction from the sweet potato, we'll try another new food, this time something green.

One side effect I'm not looking forward to: stinky solid-food diapers.  That's one "change" I can't believe in!

Monday, January 17, 2011

Book list

You may notice I added a new widget to the right sidebar today.  I read a lot so I decided this year I'll keep track of what I've read and see how many books I make it through in 2011.  (r) denotes a book I had already read before, all others are first time reads.  In a few years once Daniel starts reading I'll keep a list for him too.

The book I'm reading right now is a historical novel based on the lives of an Irish immigrant who comes to America in the 1700s and his descendants.  It would be an interesting read anyway but is particularly so for me because that immigrant, one Thomas Hill Dougan, is a direct ancestor of mine.  The following generations are collateral relations for me, not direct, but still fascinating to get that glimpse of what their life must have been like.  I'll post more about it later but I learned of this through the massive genealogy project I started last year.  It's one of those things that I didn't realize what a big undertaking it would be till I got into it, but am really enjoying learning about my roots.  So far I have several Revolutionary War patriots, soldiers on both sides of the Civil War, and on Kevin's side, he is directly descended from Pocahantas.  Really cool to learn about it all, and I hope it'll make a great gift for Daniel someday to learn more about his roots.

Captain Morgan, The Fonz, and Michael Jackson...and teething

As usual when I sit down to blog I feel like a ton has happened since my last post.  I'll save my "monthly report" on sleep, feeding, etc for after his 6 month checkup in a few days but I have some cute stories, pictures and a video to share in the meantime.

Bath-time!
Daniel's favorite time of day continues to be bathtime.  A baby his age doesn't really need a bath every day but he loves his so much we do one just about every day anyway (only soaping every other day so we don't dry out his skin). 

While Kevin gets the bath ready I take Daniel to his room to change and take off his clothes.  He smiles when he realizes it's "naked boy time" and I sing the bath time song, which is the old Batman tv theme except "Bath-time" instead of Batman...yes, clever I know ;) 

When I take him to the bathroom he likes to lay on his hooded towel on the bathmat and play and smile at us for a while.  This is where Captain Morgan and Michael Jackson come in.  He kicks his legs a lot and we joke that he's Michael Flatley, Lord of the (No-Pants) Dance, but then he'll often settle into a pose with his hands on his hips and one leg up, ala Captain Morgan:



He's not quite doing it in this picture but it's the best one I could get where he's decent:






































Usually when he's doing this there's no burp cloth or diaper in his way.  Last month he was pleased to discover that he had feet and enjoyed grabbing them.  He'd probably be a bit embarassed that I'm sharing this, but lately he has discovered his boy parts, so when his diaper is off he'll reach down to explore this new find, reminding us of a certain pop singer who used to grab himself during performances.

After some playtime on dry land we get him in the tub and clean him up, then it's more playtime with Daddy till he's ready to get out.  Kevin's got him well trained so he'll sit with his back against Kevin's knees and his feet on Kevin's chest.  Then Kevin will say "give me fingers" and hold his hands out for Daniel to grab, then pull him up to a standing position.  While he's standing up he'll dance,  do his victory and flasher poses, do the twist, and headbang.  Most days one or both of the latter two will get a good laugh out of him, as in this video:



Finally after all that, it's time to get out, dry off in his snuggly towel, and get dressed for dinner and bed.  It's a fun night-time routine that we all enjoy and a good way to transition him from playtime to bedtime.

Eeehhh!
He's been babbling the past few weeks and becoming more vocal.  Lately he's taken to making an "eh!" noise like The Fonz from Happy Days.  Haven't caught it on video yet but it sure is cute!

Houston, we have a tooth
He had been a little on the fussier side last week and we could feel swelling in his gums so we knew he was working on a tooth, but yesterday morning in church I put my finger in his mouth and could actually feel the top of the tooth, which had cut through the gums.  It looks like the tooth next to it is coming along too so he may soon have two little pearly whites.  So far teething hasn't been too bad for him.  He's been harder to get down at night and today fought his nap off for a long time, but compared to some of the horror stories I've heard it doesn't seem like we have it too bad.

Here's one more video of him showing off his gummy smile.  He's recently started to open and close his mouth and smack his lips.  He doesn't do it often but it's really cute to see when he does.  Naturally I had the camera turned vertically when I took the video so it's sideways, but still cute I think ;)